This kind of games suit some players quite well, often due to time restrictions or because they don't like all the hassle with diplomacy and alliances. For other players diplo and comm is as natural as breathing and they have problems without it. And so they ask for definitions and clarifications but what they actually try to find is a way how communication might be possible.

That's what I meant with: perhaps those game parameters are not the right ones for you then.
It actually was meant kind.